Meet your therapist
I've walked a number of paths in psychotherapy and have worked with many different kinds of people; my adaptability to folks' individual needs is one of my strengths and priorities as a clinician. In recent years, I've developed a passion for working with issues of spirituality, complex trauma, family difficulties, and mood disorders, particularly as related to people in the LGBTQIA community. Healthy and thriving relationships are central to my identity; fostering them with and for my clients is a key aspect of the work I do.
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I practice from a relationship and research driven framework; this means that our work is rooted in mutual care and respect, clear goals, and strategies tailored to your needs. My couples practice is primarily based out of the Gottman Method, which is currently one of the most highly researched and validated approaches to couples relationships.
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I also integrate psychodynamic and mindfulness-based approaches into my work, whether with individuals, couples, or families. I work towards maintaining a developmentally informed, strengths-based, queer-friendly counseling environment.
My Therapeutic Approaches
There is no such thing as a "one size fits all" counseling approach. We are all different, with individual needs; that's why I don't rely on any single counseling theory, choosing instead to tailor treatment to your needs. My relationship with you is the foundation of our therapy, and my understanding of you shapes my interventions. I pull from theories that focus on your holistic development (Adlerian Psychology), to those that help you to discover your own drive to succeed (Motivational Interviewing), to practical, action-based approaches (Acceptance & Commitment Therapy). Together, we will develop a plan for success that fits your background and needs.
People come to counseling for many different reasons. Individual therapy can be an opportunity for growth, challenging yourself, and optimizing your mental/emotional fitness. Sometimes, therapy is the opportunity to step outside of the busyness of life and find healing. You may need a space where you can connect, unburden yourself, and be encouraged. Often times, counseling is both of these things, as individuals challenge themselves to grow while simultaneously working to heal emotional wounds. I strive to provide an environment that makes space for both of these processes. My goals for your work with me is that you can feel safe, supported, encouraged, and challenged to live up to your most treasured values as you work toward your meaningful life.
Couple and family relationships, as with anything worthwhile, require work to establish and maintain. The fruits of that labor are definitely sweet, but you have to be willing to get down in the dirt and pull some weeds (or even go through some manure) to grow a strong trusting bond with your partner and children. I work to improve communication about issues, foster safety and attachment, and help you to turn relationship problems into opportunities to grow the love you all crave. I work from empirically validated models of counseling called Emotion Focused Therapy, the Gottman Method, and Adlerian family systems therapy, which help couples redefine their struggles from a place of hope, and find a greater sense of safety and trust in the connection they share. Together, we work to create an environment in the home where growth and health are most likely to flourish.
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I offer a free consultation to explore whether you and I are a good fit to work together. If I'm not the best person for you, I'll tell you, and work towards connecting you with the best possible alternative.